Bridge or Wall-A Choice

Bridge and walls are made with the same material But a bridge joins people while a wall divides people . Life is a choice . Every incident , every experience , every win or loss gives us an opportunity to learn and grow. sSome experiences are terribly bad- they just like nightmares or bad dreams. Suppose you went to a dear friend to ask help and support but he or she failed to support you in the way you expected and you were disappointed . In that mindset you just put down his/her efforts to explain why he was unable to help you. You did not see the problem or situation from your friend’s point of view. A wise step would be to test yourself and to see how you deal with a situation when he is in need of your shoulder for support. You could turn your back to him and let him go far away from you and make a wall through which he could cross or you forgive and forget and extend your hand to pull him out of a sticky situation. . Break the wall and make a fresh start .

There are many geographical challenges such as mighty rivers , big winding tributaries or small ditches, but bridges make the way smooth and connect us with two ends . In the same way, our positive approach towards situations works as a bridge. A positive cheerful approach takes the pressure off a relationship and helps us stay connected to the people around us by letting go of petty issues . On the other hand if we create walls ( ego, anger , ignorance etc) , they grow and become so strong and tall with time that we cannot climb them or make a pass through them. The walls in life and hurt us throughout our life.

Ladies and gentleman , boys and girls it’s up to us , it’s our emotions , it’s our choice either to make walls or bridges ..The material (situation , emotions , adaptability)is the same. Let’s bridge the gap and tear down the wall . Think logically and live peacefully.